Melissa had this gawkiness about her, almost as if the distance from her head, down her long legs, to her feet was just too far, but it was so cute. She really was beautiful. When she’d smile at you — she had a beautiful smile — you’d forget the world, just for that moment.
I wasn’t the only one who thought so, either. Roy knew her smile.
She walked out to a VNV song. That was telling. A song she’d usually be bouncing to, dancing around, one of the few people I know who actually looked like she enjoyed dancing while she was dancing.
“Aw fuckit” was all she said.
I gave her a hug and told her to be careful, drive safe, call soon, and when will she be up there, and all the things you tell someone you care about, at any little level, before they go on a traveling of any significance.
She walked out the patio way.
I watched her go. She slumped into her strides. She probably shouldn’t have come. When she’s mopey, there’s nothing that’ll cheer her up. Nothing.
Still, you’re hoping this is the place we had so much fun. This is where she hung out with all of her friends. This is where we bounced, got sloppy drunk and worried about each other driving home afterwards. You’re thinking it’ll be some kind of swan song, but it’s hard when she’s sad anyway, and none of her friends are there. Just me and Roy.
I think I got her to smile like maybe three times the entire night. I would’ve done more, but I was dead tired and sick and just feeling like shit. I almost didn’t go at all, except cause she was going.
You have to do that for your friends. Moments of significance. You have to be there for them.
I can’t stand people being mopey. I’d kind of gotten used to it with Melissa. There’s just nothing you can do. Nothing, so you just let her be.
But sometimes I can’t help but try. “Hey! Melissa!” She turned around.
She’s a tall girl. Long legs and long all around. I remember in Batty’s fashion show she was knock-out gorgeous, her big smile beaming, just strutting down the runway, the most beautiful girl there. Random people were always telling her how they liked her outfit or that she was pretty or they liked her hair. But that was when she’d crane herself up, perched atop her ass-kicking boots. Not like she owned the place, but like she didn’t need to.
But other times she’d kind of bend her head down, as if the ceiling wasn’t tall enough for her, and that’s what she did.
I called to her while she was still on the patio, and she kind of turned halfway and looked back, her head kind of bent over and I told her to take care and I smiled.
I believe in smiles. You can take them anywhere.
“Alright.” And she turned and walked out.
It might have been the lighting on the patio. It’s kind of yellowish out there. The sodium streetlights on Montrose spill over, but it was one of those movie moments in your life, the kind of moment that’s a picture, that you freeze. And it gets stuffed away in your head somewhere until you find it later.
So many people, I’ve seen walk away, led down different paths. Some of them I was sure I’d see soon. Others I knew. Some you make the mental note that you’ll keep in touch, that you’ll visit, that you’ll remember birthdays and that you’ll call near holidays or just every once in a while, just to make sure the world is still alright, that the good people in your life are still there, just to hear their voices, but I couldn’t help but wonder if I’d ever see her again.
I remember once when I was nine; there was this kid on the street. No one special. No one close. Not some kid I’d known since kindergarten, like my friend Josh, but just this guy who lived down the street, and we’d play GI Joes, and he had some of the He-Man action figures, and I did too, so we’d play together after school. He had a harelip he had to talk around when he told us the dirty jokes he’d heard from his uncle.
I remember when he moved away, I just cried. I just sobbed and moaned; I was so sad. My mom came in to see what was the matter and I just didn’t know. I was just so sad. I’d realized I’d never see him again, and him, not even someone important to me. Dad kind of peeked in to see what the matter was, but he just left with a quizzically concerned look on his face. I don’t think my mom understood, either, but mom’s don’t need to understand. They just know you need someone to say it’s okay.
Melissa was a good friend to me. She came into my life at a time when I really needed someone. She’d just listen. I’d try not to whine on and on, and I got good at stuffin all the crap away, but she’d listen anyway. Not that other people didn’t listen, but she seemed like she really cared. More than just being my friend and listening because she had to, because it was some moment of significance, but because she cared. She was a good listener.
And I listened, too. I like to think we met each other when we both just needed someone else there. A time when we were both slowly coming to grips with a mean sanity, and it was good just to have someone as crazy as you around. I hope that when she looks back I was as good a friend to her as she was to me.
Gearing up for the move, I never really thought I’d actually miss her. I don’t really miss people. I think maybe after my grandmother died, and just watching people wash by in the water of life, that I’ve stopped letting myself get too attached to people. I don’t let my heart out. I don’t let people in. Maybe it’s a little scarred over, maybe just a little numb, but I’m gonna miss her big, stupid boots, the way she’d get really snockered and crave silly fruity drinks with umbrellas and glow in the dark names. There won’t be anyone around to bounce with.
I’m back to bouncing on my own.
She called just before she actually hit the road for her long drive up to Pennsylvania, just to say ‘hey’. I think I’ll talk to her again. I think I’d be hard pressed not to, but I can’t help but see her behind the wheel hitting the long highway East and imagine all the great and wonderful people in my life that have driven away.
Some I let go. Others just had to go. Some I should have chased, but was too scared of what lay at the end of the road, and some I chased farther than I should have, farther than anyone would’ve. And some I’m still following.
Lately, it seems I’ve been traveling a lot, hitting the road to other cities, meeting other people, and hanging out with old friends. It sure seems like there’s another season in the air, like the wheel’s come back around again. I’m not sure what’s coming up, but life’s been going pretty well for a while now. I don’t think I’m going anywhere this weekend, but I’ll probably be on the road again next week. Life’s too short not to see the end of all the roads you can.